Let’s Talk Toys: How to Choose Your First Pleasure Product Without Shame

Let’s Talk Toys: How to Choose Your First Pleasure Product Without Shame

So, you’ve decided to dive into the sensuous world of pleasure toys? Oh, honey, then you are not alone. Whether you're flying solo or vibing with a partner, there’s no shame in wanting a little extra buzz. Still, for many of us, picking our first pleasure toy feels like walking into a secret club where everyone is enjoying, but doesn’t want to get noticed. 

Well, screw the shame. At Thrillerrr, we’re breaking the taboos. Whether you’re curious, kinky, or completely clueless, this guide is your unapologetic permission slip to explore what feels damn good. 

Know What You Crave For

First of all, do you look for something gentle or intense? Ask yourself. You want some clitoral play, G-spot stimulation, backdoor fun, or something else to soothe your desires.

Start by asking yourself:

  • Do I want external stimulation, internal, or both?
  • Do I want something quiet and discreet or bold and bossy?
  • Am I looking for solo play, partner play, or a toy that can flex for both?

If you’re unsure, don’t stress, we are here for you. No pressure, just endless ways to satisfy your hunger!!

Some Beginner-Friendly Vibes

Let’s talk first loves, yes, you understood right- toys. For beginners, we always recommend:

Air Suction Massagers: They are perfect for external clitoral stimulation without overwhelming vibrations. Think of it like a soft, rhythmic kiss that never misses the spot. Ideal for anyone exploring pleasure for the first time.

Mini Wands: Small but oh-so mighty. These pocket-sized legends deliver powerful sensations and give you the much-needed pleasure without looking intimidating. Many are USB rechargeable and ultra-quiet, so your roommate or mom sleeping in the next room won’t hear your glow-up moment.

Pro tip: Always look for toys with multiple settings, as you never know which kind of pleasure you like. Choosing a new sex toy isn’t like grabbing something off a shelf; it’s a personal and intimate decision, so choose wisely.

The Benefits of Sex Toys: More than Just a Good Time

The benefit of sex toys, put simply, is that they make you feel good! And the fact that they can help you feel good, or even great, is enough to buy and use them. However, besides pleasure, there are many happy mental, emotional, and physical side effects of incorporating pleasure products into your life.

They’re taking control of your pleasure — unapologetically, deliciously, and on your terms.

Further, these toys hit the right spot and provide sensations at intensities and patterns that the human body cannot physically create. Whether it’s a late-night weekday with no one in the house or a kinky couple's scene featuring a wand that purrs like a lover with a secret, toys unlock pleasure pathways where fingers and tongues simply can’t reach.

Toys release orgasms, reduce stress, soothe cramps, relieve pain, and much more. Toys are more than fun — they’re wellness with a twist.

Newbie or Naughty Expert- Thrillerrr Got You Covered

Exploring a store for the first time or checking out something more advanced can feel overwhelming. With so many options, it’s easy to feel unsure about what to buy and whether it will give you pleasure or not.

That confusion is normal. Whether you’re exploring solo play, shopping with a partner, or looking for something very specific, check out Thrillerrr’s products. From Kissr to Meltz, our mood-matching vibes are more than toys — they’re extensions of your fantasy.

You’re So freaking Hot, and So Are Our Toys!!

Final Thoughts: You Deserve This

If no one has told you today, your pleasure matters- your curiosity is valid. And your body deserves tools that help you love, explore, and enjoy. So go ahead — add to cart, try something new, that gives you pleasure.

Vibes don’t lie. They just help you find your truth… and maybe your favourite new way to unwind.

So all people out there, all you gotta do is choose the perfect adult toy for yourself and eat-pray-love that up! Eat the shame, pray by saying ‘Oh God, Don’t Stop’ and finally, love every inch of yourself and show some good times.

Back to blog

Leave a comment